Month: January 2017
A message from Hubby
Hi I’m Simon – better known for being the other half to Adele Theron- Although I work with Adele on the business-side of NakedRecoveryOnline and NakedDivorce (I also have no own businesses), I usually stay the hell out of delivering any content. Over the years though I been asked the same questions time-and-time again so I […]
12. Stop complaining when life isn’t fair
Life isn’t fair so people will talk about you behind your back and be horrible even if you don’t deserve it and have always been nice and supportive to them. This is because most people will only do whatever they do to forward things for themselves so don’t expect that your good deeds and actions […]
11. Stop worrying if others like you or not
Stop giving a damn about everyone liking you. There is a clear T-junction when it comes to this point – you can focus on being liked or you can make a difference in life. Both of these items cannot always be true together.
10. Stop gossiping
Never talk badly about other people. Bored people talk about other people. Powerful people talk about the big games, projects and exciting things they are doing in their lives.
9. Stop feeling sorry for yourself
The universe doesn’t care about your bad day and neither does anyone else. Pick yourself up and keep moving forward.
8. Speak with power
Focus on making eye contact with people when you talk to them, lift your chin and speak in a clear audible voice. Softly spoken people are very dominating to those around them as everyone needs to lean in to hear them. It’s subtle manipulative control vs. clear powerful behaviour.
7. Communicate with clarity
Powerful people communicate clearly and powerfully, without drama. They make requests and never make excuses for why things don’t happen.
6. Stop just doing what you ‘feel’ like
Powerful people don’t run their lives based on what they ‘feel’ like doing at any given moment. Powerful people value their commitments and their agreements with themselves and others and when they don’t ‘feel’ like doing something they ignore those feelings and do what they agreed to do anyway.
5. Live with integrity
Focus on your personal integrity and honouring your values, ethics and agreements with people and yourself. Especially with yourself.
4. Stop being a drama queen
Don’t see every little thing that happens as so significant and create dramas out of small things. It’s an addiction! Stop doing it – keep things small and move on.
