Signs:
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Poor me
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How could you
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Reluctance
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Outrage
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Defensiveness
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Sympathy-seeking
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Feel the right to be hurt
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Entitled
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Unearned guilt
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Blame/ shame/ fault finding
How to shift:
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Shift perception from Victim/ pedestrian to passenger/ Witness
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Shift attention from blame to seeking accountability
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Have a plan in place for handling triggers
